{"id":741,"date":"2011-12-09T14:26:05","date_gmt":"2011-12-09T13:26:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/joannearchibald.com\/?p=741"},"modified":"2023-11-02T14:10:49","modified_gmt":"2023-11-02T13:10:49","slug":"tales-of-the-unexpected-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/joannearchibald.com\/fr\/blog\/tales-of-the-unexpected-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Tales of the unexpected"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>If life is what happens while you\u2019re busy making other plans, it\u2019s wise to keep a few gaps in your diary\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I am definitely one of life\u2019s planners. I like making a list, checking it twice, then typing it up and keeping it on file. I enjoy feeling organised and like things are under control, or at least as if I\u2019m doing everything I can to make life run smoothly. In general, I think this a quality that usually serves me well. It means I show up on time, rarely forget appointments, keep on top of paperwork, and don\u2019t often run around like a headless chicken. Organisation and planning \u2013 within reason \u2013 are undeniably Good Things.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018Tis the season to be organised!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In the run up to Christmas (and the beloved\u2019s birthday, which occurs the week before), my list-making takes on gargantuan proportions. Lists of things to get, things to do before I leave for wherever I\u2019m going, people to contact, Christmas cards to write, appointments to make for the new year\u2026 I like to have it all written down so that I\u2019m not permanently worrying I\u2019ve forgotten something. Writing a to-do list frees the brain for higher activities \u2013 like watching Gremlins for the tenth time and working out the exact right recipe for mulled wine.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The best laid plans of mice and men<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Funnily enough though, in recent years, Christmas has also served as a reminder to me that sometimes the best things in life are the things we don\u2019t plan. A couple of years back, I was going home to England for Christmas, travelling with an American friend who was staying with me over the holidays. (When told that she was featuring in my latest column, the aforementioned friend wanted to choose her own pseudonym. At her own request, she shall henceforth be referred to as Peggy Sue.) A few days before we were due to leave Paris, the Eurostar stopped working. It just stopped. Apparently the winter was so cold that the trains were experiencing a thermal shock as they entered the tunnel, and the engines were seizing up. At first I didn\u2019t actually believe that we wouldn\u2019t be able to get on a train. I kept telling an increasingly worried Peggy Sue that the Eurostar was sure to be fixed somehow and that all would go according to plan. I guess everyone can see what\u2019s coming.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A long coach journey into night<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The date of our programmed departure came and went, and we couldn\u2019t get a seat on a train, so we ended up catching an overnight coach from Paris to London. What ensued was one of the most memorable journeys I\u2019ve ever taken. We had a leaky roof on our coach; a woman point blank refused to swap seats to let us sit together (her prerogative, of course, but who actually refuses that sort of request?); the man next to Peggy chatted to himself the entire journey; another chap was almost left behind every time we had to get off the coach and go through customs; one passenger was actually detained\u2026 It made the Odyssey look like a trip to the seaside. All this from 9 p.m. to 7 a.m. in freezing and icy conditions. Now, I\u2019m not going to suggest that Peg and I preferred this to whizzing under the Channel on the cosy Eurostar, but neither would I say I regret the trip. We had fits of giggles, took turns sleeping on the ferry, made up silly stories about our coach-mates. We were already friends when we left, but when we arrived, that epic night had made our bond even tighter.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Seizing the surprise<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Thinking back, some of the best things that have occurred in my life indeed happened while I was busy making other plans. Like the time I intended to go to the cinema, take a walk then have an early night. Luckily I abandoned my plan when a charming chap I met while waiting for the film to start asked me to go for coffee with him. He turned out to be the love of my life. Or the time I received a letter meant for a different Joanne Archibald offering a part in a play at university. I had made the decision not to audition for anything that term, but I phoned the director to tell her she\u2019d got the wrong woman and ended up auditioning for and getting the lead (the other Joanne had already declined). Thanks to that role, I made friends I still cherish to this day, was given a part in another play after that one, and ended up directing something myself. Or the time I got lost in Paris, stumbled upon a volunteer bureau and ended up doing some great charity work.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Relishing the random<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Planning is, for me, one of the keys to a calm, organised life; but the unexpected is always the source of the best fun. I won\u2019t stop making lists (I suspect it\u2019s actually an addiction, but I think it\u2019s a pretty harmless one), but every Christmas I am now reminded to revel in whatever gets thrown at me. It\u2019s the bumps and twists in the road that make the journey interesting. It\u2019s the random encounters and chance events that make your life full of life rather than simply a slavish playing out of your day planner. Sometimes, as I discovered on a cold and leaky coach in Calais, it\u2019s actually life\u2019s hassles that prove to be the most entertaining, enriching and memorable experiences we share.<\/p>\n<p>Originally published on Running in Heels.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If life is what happens while you\u2019re busy making other plans, it\u2019s wise to keep a few gaps in your diary\u2026 I am definitely one of life\u2019s planners. I like making a list, checking it twice, then typing it up and keeping it on file. 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